Fight or FLIGHT?
As most toddler parents know, toddlers often have their own ideas and ways of doing things, which don’t always match up to our own. In the eyes of a toddler, plane travel might be exciting and new, and of course, at times, very over stimulating— but it can also be one of the most exciting times of your lives.
When planning a trip, the idea of a flight, be it short or long haul, with a toddler, potentially may be a dealbreaker. As a solo parent to a rather spirited toddler, I’ve complied some tried and tested methods on how to survive a plane journey with our mini’s.
1. Explain everything.
Toddlers love to be in the know. The more they know, the less the sound of the dreaded “why” word will fill the cabin. Before the flight, explain where you are going, show them photos of aeroplanes, and maps.
2. Get there very early
The more time you have at the airport, the more time there is to let off some steam before you’re cooped up on the plane. Quite a few aeroplanes have play areas and activity stops for children, and this is always a good way to burn off pent up energy and pre flight excitement
3. Snacks.
Bribery is sometimes your friend. Most planes do offer inflight services, but it’s always a guessing game as to when they come around. If you’re armed with snacks and a drink (always useful for take off and landing too) you can whip them out the second they’re needed
4. Activities
Every time we’re expecting a journey, I pack a little activity pack full of things to do. My phone is loaded with music and downloaded video clips from shows or songs, little colouring books, writing pads, a kindle, and small fidget toys. Once one activity becomes boring, another is very easily available. These things are also all easily found at airports.
5. Enjoy the journey
If you’re lucky enough to have the window seat, looking outside can be the most magical experience for a toddler. Being high in the clouds, with the sky surrounding you is an adventure on its own. If not, there’s plenty of things to see, like people watching or stretching your legs and walking down the isles.
6. Never worry about what other people think
I’ve had a man’s bare foot placed on my arm rest, and another flight I’ve spent listening to someone playing their music without any earphones. Toddlers absolutely are not the worst passengers on an aeroplane, never worry what anyone else thinks
7. Have all your documents ready to go
Once the plane has landed and you make your way through the airport, make sure your documents and passports are all open and ready to be checked. The queues may be a boring task, and occasionally if you have children the security move you further towards the front of the queue.
Travelling with a toddler may be daunting, but it is by far one of the most rewarding experiences. Flight attendants are always there to help you if you require it, and fellow passengers can be angels in disguises.
Happy flying!
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